Showing posts with label Aged. Show all posts
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Tuesday, May 4, 2010

Old folks in S'pore an asset to their families

Study finds they give more help than they receive from their families, compared with the elderly elsewhere in Asia

COMPARED with old folk in other Asian states, the elderly in Singapore are contributing both practically and financially to their families, according to a 2008 global ageing study by Oxford University.

Unfortunately, they also get less support of the same kind from their children and grandchildren.

Said British gerontologist Sarah Harper, one of the researchers behind the study: 'We have this idea that older people are a burden on our society but that's because we tend to look at it through our tax system, that they are not in work.'

This is far from the truth, because the study showed that older people still made significant contributions towards their loved ones at home, she said yesterday, in presenting the study at a conference by the International Consortium for Intergenerational Programmes.

Around 1,000 seniors each from various places worldwide were asked if they had given financial and practical support to their family members over a six-month period.

The study also asked respondents - aged above 55 - if their children or grandchildren had done the same for them.

The results showed that older folks in Singapore were giving more help to their children and grandchildren than the other way around.

Twelve per cent of Singaporean respondents said they offered support such as shopping for groceries, or helping their children clean the house.

On the other hand, just 9 per cent of them said their family members had either shopped or cleaned house for them.

In Asia, the Philippines had the most seniors who gave practical help, with 40 per cent, and China the lowest, with 3 per cent of grandparents saying they helped out.

Hong Kong, Taiwan, India, Malaysia and South Korea were included in the study as well.

Singapore was also one of three Asian countries where the elderly respondents offered more practical support to their children and grandchildren than otherwise. The other two were the Philippines and South Korea.

In terms of financial help, the younger generation in Singapore ranked third worst when it came to giving money to their parents, with only 18 per cent of respondents saying their children had given them money.

South Korea ranked the best, with 67 per cent of seniors saying they received money from their children, followed by Malaysia with 56 per cent; the Philippines with 40 per cent; India with 35 per cent and Hong Kong with 29 per cent.

In South Korea and the Philippines, the older generation gave the children as much financial support as they received from them.

Some 6 per cent of Singapore seniors also said they contributed financially to their children and grandchildren.

Professor Harper said yesterday on the sidelines of the four-day conference which ended yesterday: 'When we look at what's happening in families, we see that older people are making a large contribution.

'They are giving money to their children and grandchildren, they are providing care and they are also providing practical support.'

In his closing remarks at the conference, Minister in the Prime Minister's Office Lim Boon Heng said that he hoped to see more creative programmes encouraging intergenerational bonding being developed.

'As these seniors renegotiate the terms of their old age, so must other generations renegotiate their relationships with them,' the minister, who is in charge of ageing issues, added.

Click here for the article in the ST on Apr 30 2010

Wednesday, April 28, 2010

RETIREMENT VILLAGE

Spotted in the ST Forum....what do you guys think?

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Apr 19, 2010

RETIREMENT VILLAGE

Pulau Ubin an ideal choice

THE Government should look into the possibility of creating a retirement village on beautiful Pulau Ubin. I am sure it will be well received by senior citizens.

The small island, untouched by development, can be a resort-like green retirement village where the clean atmosphere, fresh breeze from the sea and lovely beaches will make for a healthy and relaxing environment in the golden years of life.

For families visiting their aged parents on weekends, it will be wholesome fun and a refreshing break from the chores of urban life.

The young can also spend the day on the island, cycling or going on a nature walk.

Jeffrey Tan

Apr 29, 2010

Retirement villages not best way for S'poreans

MR JEFFREY Tan ('Retirement village: Pulau Ubin an ideal choice') and Miss Angeline Elysia Tan ('The hope') meant well on April 19 about introducing retirement villages for senior citizens.

Certainly, more can be done for senior citizens to have a meaningful and wholesome life in their twilight years.

But the idea and concept of placing them on an island or in a village is not one that should even be considered, no matter how well we develop such a place with easy accessibility for visits thrown in.

At a time when we are encouraging our young to be filial and look after their ageing parents, conveniently packing their parents off to an island or village is not the solution. Spending quality time with their parents and looking after their welfare is.

And because many today are all too often busy with their career and own family, it makes more sense to live with, or at least be near, their parents.

It may be true that senior citizens will benefit from the peace and tranquillity of an island or a village.

However, by the same token, it will ultimately detach them from their family and the Singapore they worked so hard to help build.

Victor Khoo


'Why not Sentosa?'

MS TAN ENG LIAN: 'Pulau Ubin reminds me of Alcatraz. The one-time island prison off San Francisco, California, was a place where hardcore criminals were banished, ultimately dying a lonely death. If we want a retirement village, why not Sentosa? It is a resort island and who else deserves it more than our senior citizens? While there is peace and quiet in such a village, senior citizens can access a resort brimming with life and bright lights as well. The aged will cherish their golden years even more. Their children and grandchildren will have good reasons to visit them too. A retirement village must be a place where people can look forward to living happily, not a forgotten island where they may feel they have been dumped. Better still, if we provide comfortable homes for the aged, rebuilt and renovated, at all suitable void decks, those who do not live in retirement villages can enjoy the option of living nearer their loved ones.'

'HDB estates should incorporate retirement villages.'

MR SAY KIN TONG: 'I am 52 years old and when I retire I would prefer to live in a retirement village within an HDB estate. As one ages, one prefers living in a community of all ages, not alone with a group of elderly people waiting to see who dies first. HDB estates should incorporate retirement villages so elderly people can live among young families, particularly their own. The villages need not be complicated. The first few levels of blocks in an estate can be designated the village. When elderly citizens are ready to move in, the change will not be traumatic because they will still be in a familiar neighbourhood. The Government will save on land resources as well.'

'No Pulau Ubin for me.'

MS TAN LEE KHENG: 'My vision of a retirement village is a place where I can live on my own yet when I step out of my home, there are people (eventually friends) of my age to socialise with. Like-minded people who think nothing of telling the same stories over and over. Stories our children are sick of hearing yet again. Play mahjong or computer games, or line-dance with friends, happily laughing at our mistakes, arthritic fingers and stiff bodies. We will be in our league. I expect to be able-bodied, and perhaps take a bus or train to visit my children when I feel like it. Maybe go window shopping or have lunch with friends outside the retirement village. Maybe baby-sit occasionally. A retirement village should give me and my grown children privacy and freedom, and accessibility to each other and facilities. A 365-day dose of beach and nature would be suffocating. So no Pulau Ubin for me.'